The psychology of high achievers that makes them special.
Do you really want to be successful? Most people (this may include you) say yes. And yet, there’s only about one percent of the world’s population really achieved success.
The truth is obvious – not all people know the path towards success. As a result, almost all people wander to find it. They ask the same question repeatedly: How to become successful?
The problem is that they ask the wrong question. Successful people don’t ask that question. They think and view the world differently. The following are the psychology of high achievers.
1. High achievers know who they are.
The reason why asking how to be successful is a bad idea is that it strays you from the right path. Successful people know that in order to be successful, one should revisit his own “self.” The right question then is “What kind of person you really are?” Knowing your true personality helps you determine what you really want in life. From that point, you can easily design your own path.
2. High achievers have a mindset.
Successful people fill their mind with rich imaginations of the things they really want to accomplish. Mental representation helps them transform their dreams into reality. This why you should cultivate a right mindset. Because whatever you store in your mind, will become your ultimate life’s circumstance either at present or in the future. The problem of most people who failed is that they filled their mind with negativities. The worst part is that they have no idea that their imaginations played important role in their failure. So you need to be extra careful. Build a mindset that is in line with your ultimate goal.
3. High achievers believe in themselves.
Successful people have the habit of believing in their own potential. Even if the goal is hard, they are not afraid to fall down. Failure makes them even stronger. In fact, successful people experienced more failures than people who are not successful.
4. High achievers take responsibility for their actions.
One of the most valuable characteristics of successful people is a sense of responsibility. They don’t blame others for their failures. Instead, they accept the consequence of their actions and fix their mess. Their lives depend on them and them alone. It doesn’t matter where they came from. The more important question they would ask is where are they going. They understand very clearly that they have the power to create their own world.
5. High achievers are not dependent.
Millions of people work for a job they hate. They wake up and go to work every morning, pay their bills, hope for their retirement benefits at sixty-five years old, and die. This is a rat race that most people are in. But successful people design their own life away from this trap. They make every moment of their lives meaningful. They don’t depend on others to live. No wonder why the greatest innovators in history help revolutionize the world by following their passion.
6. High achievers take action.
A goal is easy to make. That’s why everyone has it. But success is hard. That’s why most people are not successful. It is part of human behavior to stay away from pain. As a result, most people choose the easy way. But successful people ignore pain and take action. Setting a goal is just a starting line. Working on the goal is the greater part of the process.
High achievers are unstoppable. They don’t listen to their pain. They just keep on taking one step ahead, grinding and hustling even in times when they don’t feel good doing what is necessary. That’s a champion’s mindset. If you have that attitude, you’re not far away from becoming successful.
7. High achievers hone their talents.
It is easy to think that success is a function of talent. But it’s not always a case. There are many talented people who are not successful. Although talent is a big factor for success, it is not the whole picture. In fact, talent is not enough. When you look at successful people, they have lists of their failures. The key thing that leads them to their achievements is the willingness to develop their potential. This is the reason why most successful athletes train every day with or without an upcoming fight. Because they understand that practice is more important than the actual game. Every day is an opportunity for them to hone their greatest potential.
8. High achievers are incredibly motivated.
One of the most important determinants of success is motivation. This is the problem of most people. The ones who failed are the ones who easily lost their motivation when they encounter challenges. Honestly, it is easier to give up when you are frustrated. It is easy to give up when you failed. But successful people do not. When they failed, they become more eager to take another step, climb a higher hill, and dive into a deeper sea. In other words, failure makes them stronger and more motivated. The amount and consistency of motivation are what separates successful people from the average ones.
Thus, if you want to become successful in your life, you need to wake up. Do not follow other people. Create your own path. Plant your own seed. Water it and believe in it. Without believing in your own potential, your goal is pointless. Life is phenomenal. Don’t waste it. Instead, make it meaningful.
I’m a licensed psychometrician, author, and blogger. I’m currently working as a University instructor teaching psychology. I love writing and doing psychological research.