What psychological secrets that can help to make girls attracted to you?
If you’re a guy who finds difficulties in dealing with girls, certainly this advice is for you. Don’t worry, this is not manipulative and negative. These tips are ordinary actions that you might have forgotten.
So, are you excited? So am I. Let’s start discussing the tactics.
10 psychological secrets to make girls attracted to you
1. Be yourself
Before you can make somebody like you, you need to be comfortable with yourself first. This makes you become confident in all aspects of your life. Be yourself whoever you are.
2. Have an interesting passion or hobby
Girls like men who have interesting passion. But it should be a real passion. If you say that you love writing stories, it should be evident in you. The girls must see your passion in action. It does not matter what it is. It could be a simple habit of drawing, painting, singing or playing any sports.
3. Observe proper hygiene
Women love guys who smell good. This does not mean that you need to wear perfume all the time. You just need to consider great hygiene. This involves taking a bath regularly and of course, brushing your teeth after every meal if necessary.
4. Ask favor
This involves asking a favor from a girl you like. Yes, asking a favor from others can make you more likable. In fact, great leaders in the past applied the same tactic. This is called the “Benjamin Franklin Effect” because Benjamin Franklin used this tactic to his enemies back then.
How does this tactic work? Here’s the explanation:
A person who has performed a favor for someone is more likely to do another favor for that person than they would be if they had received a favor from that person. An explanation for this would be that we internalize the reason that we helped them was because we liked them. The opposite case is also believed to be true, namely that we come to hate a person whom we did wrong to. We de-humanize them to justify the bad things we did to them – Benjamin Franklin.
When you apply this technique to any girl you like, she will more likely be attracted to you unconsciously.
5. Be a funny person
Make her laugh. Well, this does not mean that you crack insulting jokes. You can always make people laugh by telling decent jokes. You can be hilarious if you want to be without hurting someone else’s feelings.
Laughter is some of the best ways to make people interested in you. So make her laugh and happy in your company.
6. Make her your close friend
In the beginning, try to establish a causal relationship with her. Be her friend for months. Communicate with her through cell phones, online chats, etc. Share your ideas with her and listen to her stories too especially when she’s in a challenging situation.
Make her feel that you care for her. Show her sympathy for whatever she might currently be experiencing (but make it sure that you are realistic in your actions). This process develops a deeper understanding and trust between the two of you. And mutual understanding and love will also develop along the way.
7. Touch her in a non-sexual way
As you go along with a mutual relationship, you already have established trust. At this moment a simple handshake is enough to make her feel your sincerity and to let her know that you are comfortable with her. But if you notice that she does not like to be touched, don’t push it. It can only create suspicion.
8. Tell her you secrets
Tell your personal stories, a secret maybe. The reason behind this is that when you tell secrets to other people they will feel that you trust them your private life. As a result, they will also tell their secrets. Why? Because they think you are a trustworthy person.
So if you tell secrets to a girl, sooner or later she will also tell you her stories. This is a sign that she already trusted you.
9. Show her your excitement being with her
In a busy world, attention is a commodity that not everyone can afford. So giving to a girl full attention can be a tremendous thing. Not all people gave this type of gift to her. Doing so makes her think that you are special someone; someone who will always be there for her.
10. Be mindful of your actions
Always avoid actions that will potentially hurt her both physically and emotionally. Thus be mindful in your words. Remember that words are more powerful than actions. This is because words penetrate in the deepest part of her soul. Take care of her trust and never break it.
I’m a licensed psychometrician, author, and blogger. I’m currently working as a University instructor teaching psychology. I love writing and doing psychological research.